If not now, then when...?
Things my clients often say:
- Why did I wait so long...
- If only I had looked in to this sooner...
- I've wasted so much time...
- I wish I knew that 20 years ago...
When we are struggling, why do we wait so long to reach out for help and support, and in some cases not at all?
Well, that's a very good question. And, one of the reasons that I see and hear from clients is that it feels like it's just too hard.
Change is hard. It takes commitment, consistency, effort, energy, time, conscious thought....etc etc etc. It can involve changing our job, changing a relationship, changing who we associate with, where we live....
Often it is easier to just stay where we are and hope for the best. We keep our limiting beliefs fore-front in our minds because they are easy. They don't require conscious thought and effort. They are our default settings.
But there IS so much more out there. There is no limit to what we can achieve and become if we put our minds to it. And what's more, we deserve it. We deserve to reach our full potential. We deserve to find joy in our journey. We deserve the good things that life can offer.
The first step is to realise that there is more available to you. Then, do your research, read the book, make the change, believe in yourself, be open to a new mindset.... The list goes on.
And if you don't have someone in your life that can encourage and support you in this then maybe a Life Coach can.
You have to decide you are worth the effort and investment in your own journey. We only get one life, don't wait any longer.
When will you make the change? If not now, then when...?
Find the joy in your journey